Tuning In To The Love That Fills and Surrounds You


Take a breath right now, and notice how abundant the air is, full of life-giving oxygen offered freely by trees and other green growing things. You can’t see air, but it’s always available for you. Love is a lot like the air. It may be hard to see – but it’s in you and all […]

Loving Yourself: How Important Is It? Can You Love Someone Else If You Don’t Love Yourself?

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This post is a response to The Real Deal on Finding Love by Ilana Donna Arazie. In her recent blog post (linked above), Ilana Donna Arazie repeated the following folk wisdom: “No one is ever going to love you more than you love yourself. In other words, until you’re 100 percent into YOU, no one […]

A Weekly Thought From Ruthanne


Pathways to Radiant Loving Often in our work, when couples are stuck in a conflict, each not willing to let go of their point of view, we ask a simple question. Would you rather be right or loved? It is a question that always gets their attention. Whenever we hold on righteously, so sure of […]