A Learning Experience

learning-experience-writingSo I thought writing for a website I really liked, College Candy, was going to be a great idea. They were looking for someone to take on a month-long challenge and I emailed them saying I’d like to try giving up chocolate for a month. I didn’t even think they would respond being a busy and successful website, but they did and I was excited! You may have seen me post about starting this challenge!

I must say this has been an eye opening experience on how important credibility and professionalism are.

For the first article, they posted it up “By: CC Staff” even though they knew my name and I even sent a picture! But, alright fine, I let it go. I asked to have my blog link in there just to show that I wrote it and didn’t think it would be a big deal. They never responded and didn’t add it, but the article looked great and I was so excited about being published on a popular website that I didn’t even care I couldn’t eat chocolate!

The second week however, was different. Words were changed and sentences added without asking me. Not a huge deal, but what really miffed me was that it now said “By Lauren *last name*” and it wasn’t my name. It was the editor who I send the articles to. Definitely made it look like she wrote it without any credit to me whatsoever.

I was mad. I want to stay professional with everything I do and sent a nice email with my third article asking if I could get some credit because I’d love to use these published articles in a portfolio. A friend pointed out, perhaps this was a mistake since we are both named Lauren? Maybe. Didn’t get a response and when the third article was posted it said “By CC Staff” again.

Oooo best part. They added this sentence that made me sound disgusting:”And really, even if I have a few cheats here and there, it’s still way better than what I would normally doing, right? A petite red velvet cake is still a step up from an entire sleeve of Girl Scout cookies….every day.” No, I didn’t write that and I don’t eat an entire sleeve of cookies every day, thanks!

So now I have one more to write. I have to admit that being so aggravated over this, I gave up giving up chocolate. I don’t even care anymore since I proved to myself I could do it for a few weeks. So then I was left with a decision: do I even write and send in a last article? In the end with advice from some journalism friends, I decided to send it in.

But I also wanted to write this blog to warn my blog friends about their website and ensure they don’t offer to write for them and go through the same experience. It was definitely a learning experience. I realized you’re not always going to deal with a professional website, you perhaps won’t get the credit you deserve, and you’ll get ignored even if you’re doing them a favor.

Live & Learn.

To read the original article or more from Lauren, check out Lauren’s Thoughts.

© 2011 Copyright   Allison Stuart Kaplan  www.Askinyourface.com LLC

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  1. Lauren- You handled yourself and the situation with integrity and true professionalism – good for you! As you are learning; people don’t always live their lives professionally or personally with the same standards and values as our own. Yes, this can be disappointing but never let it discourage you from being and doing your best everyday. You WILL always be a great success- you’re just that kind of special person.

  2. Thank you Allison – that means a lot!

  3. Lauren;
    Allison said it all! Many of us conduct ourselves with sincerity, and it sounds as if you went beyond the limits, but we often come across people, jobs, situations and other incidents where we need to make a choice. Go girl! You did a fine job, and I can only hope that someone took note ( on the other side) and learned a lesson from you.

  4. Thanks Shen – I appreciate this comment a lot!

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